Monday, May 3, 2010

Words that kill.

Words are just words, they don't have the capacity to hurt someone physically but in contrast , it is susceptible to drain out everything you have left mentally and emotionally.

Words bear emotions thus we communicate what we feel or observe. News, tidings, Gossip, Tabloids and information is the outcome of combination of words passed through a matter of people. The passage of information through verbal ways is just considered as a human act. People are just being people and the bible shows a very good example. Why? As far as im concerned, gospels were just passed through words. Genesis said this to Luke, God to moses, Moses to the people and the cycle goes on. And these flexed words affect everyone's life more than anything else.

Everyone has said something bad once or more to others in which they do not know its catastrophic effects on our lives. And i admit, i do it like my worst vice, saying words that i do not mean. This is the day that i came to a point of realization that words actually kills. When you hear someone say what you don't like it feels like your being strangled to death by a rope or being massacred like in Jigsaw's movies.

But to make it all worse, sometimes it had to came out of your parents mouth. Parents who's main role is to say things that would actually make us their children feel good or shape us into being a great person. I know that there are millions of people who's fond of using obscure language when it comes to disciplining their children. What do i know? im only a teenager without knowledge of this act of "parenting". What i do know is how it feels. How it feels when your all choked up and feels like the world is crushing to pieces because your mother said your gonna end up in the streets to be a slut or any unideal occupation. I wish they knew how i it feels, i wish they comprehend the fact that this mere act of saying hurtful words wont help them it can only make things worse.

Teenage angst is one of the most common outcome of this parenting way. Rebellious teenagers who uses coke, weed or any drug to make it through the day. Because words dont just come in and out of our ears. The outcome is, early rehabilitation or early pregnancy. And if their parents only knew that they were the source of this schism.

We are not that experienced, we aren't that matured enough to face those words.

TO BE CONTINUED